一把解读维多利亚时代婚姻的钥匙——析《到灯塔去》中拉姆齐夫妇的关系

The Ramsays' Marriage in To the Lighthouse

《到灯塔去》中拉姆齐夫妇的婚姻就像一把钥匙,可以解读维多利亚时代的夫妻关系及女性地位。文章主要从三个方面来分析他们的婚姻生活:性生活、物质生活和精神生活。指出菲勒斯文化下的婚姻不但是对女性的压迫,而且也使男性备感孤独,造成男女双方人格的分裂;两性只有在真正平等的基础上才能共享爱情,达到幸福的彼岸。

The Ramsays＇ marriage in To the Lighthouse is like a key with which people can have a deep understanding of the relationship between husband and wife and the position of woman founded on Victorian roles and values. It is analyzed from three aspects of marital life： sexual, material and spiritual. The paper points out that the marriage under the phallus culture is not only the repression on women, but also makes the men feel lonely. Therefore, it debilitates to both parties. Man and woman can enjoy love and happiness only on the base of real equality.