摘要
放下手机别人说话时,与他保持眼神交流有助于建立信任,因为这表示你对他说的话真的感兴趣。但是如果你一直看手机或扫视房间,你就很难与别人建立起信任关系。不要交叉双臂或双腿你把双臂或双腿交叉起来,可能只是因为你觉得冷,但这个姿势把你封闭起来了。确保你的身体是舒展开的,这样你看起来很乐意倾听别人的想法。
Maintaining eye contact when someone is talking will help build trust because it shows genuine interest,but that’s hard to do if you keep glancing at your phone or scanning around the room.Uncross your arms and legs You might only be crossing your arms and legs,say,because you’re cold,but that stance closes you off.Make sure your body looks open—you’ll look open to hearing others’thoughts.
