城市单身青年恋综“上头”的逻辑与影响

The Logic and Influence of“Addiction”in Love Variety Shows Among Urban Single Youth

恋综“上头”现象既是当下城市单身青年情感满足的代偿机制多元化的一种表现,也折射出青年人对理想化恋爱关系模式的渴望。恋综节目之所以能吸引青年人,深层逻辑主要有两个方面:一是满足了在亲密关系理性化的背景下青年人期待理想化情感的需求,为青年人提供了情感代偿的体验;二是通过强化暂时性的脱嵌体验、模糊虚拟与真实的边界,让青年人获得主位控制感和实践感。对于青年人的现实婚恋实践来说,恋综“上头”既是一种情感赋能,又是一种现实消解的力量,需要个人、媒介和国家各个层面的对话、反思和责任担当。

The phenomenon of“addiction”in love variety show is a manifestation of the diversified compensation mechanism for emotional satisfaction among urban single young people,and also reflects the young people’s desire for an idealized love relationship model.The reason why love variety show can attract young people mainly has two aspects:one is to meet the needs of young people’s emotional expression and ideal expectations under the background of rationalization of intimate relationship,which provide young people with emotional compensation experience;Second,by strengthening the temporary detachment experience and blurring the boundary between the virtual and the real,young people can gain a sense of subjectivity’s control and practice.For young people’s real love and marriage practice,love variety show“addiction”is not only a kind of emotional empowerment,but also a kind of power to dispel reality,which requires dialogue,reflection and responsibility at all levels of individuals,media and the state.