儿童同胞关系的历史变迁及现实启示

The Historical Changes and Realistic Enlightenment of Children’s Sibling Relationships

随着经济社会的发展,我国的人口结构和生育政策也在不断发生变化,由此形成了不同的同胞关系。为准确理解同胞关系的内涵,不仅要考察其标志性事件,更应考察其演进过程。运用访谈法对14位不同年代出生的同胞兄弟姐妹进行调查,梳理归纳同胞关系的历史变迁和趋势特点。经梳理发现,我国儿童同胞关系主要经历了多子女时代(1949—1980年)、独生子女时代(1981—2010年)以及多孩时代(2011年至今)三个阶段,具有和谐与冲突、竞争并存的特点。在同胞关系的处理上,提出正视同胞关系、提高养育能力、发挥同胞关系的积极作用等观点,为当下父母协调同胞关系提供借鉴。

With the development of economy and society,the population structure and birth policy of our country are also changing constantly,thus different sibling relationships were formed.In order to accurately understand the connotation of sibling relationship,we should not only examine its landmark events,but also examine its evolution process.Using the interview method to investigate 14 siblings born in different generations,this paper sorts out and summarizes the historical changes and trends and features of sibling relations.Through combing,it is found that the children’s sibling relationship in China has mainly experienced three stages:the multi-child era(1949—1980),the single-child era(1981—2010)and the multi-child era(2011—present).It has the characteristics of coexistence of harmony and conflict.In dealing with the sibling relationship,the paper puts forward the views of facing up to the sibling relationship,improving the parenting ability,giving play to the positive role of the sibling relationship,which provides useful reference for the current parents to coordinate the sibling relationship.