“密集型育儿”:当代家庭教养方式的转型实践及其反思

“Intensive Parenting”: The Transformation Practice of Contemporary Parenting and Its Reflection

伴随着社会经济发展和家庭结构转型,教育竞争持续加剧,一种以孩子为中心,父母投入大量时间、精力和金钱的"密集型育儿"成为当代家庭教养方式的主流趋势。其主要表现为重视孩子的成就价值、强调母亲的教育职责、各个阶层不同程度卷入等特点。可见,"密集型育儿"不仅对孩子和父母产生影响,同时会进一步加大性别不平等和扩大阶层再生产。总之,养育孩子将面临更多的挑战,这既是个体困惑又是社会问题,需要个人、家庭、社会、国家等多方力量共同努力才能走出抚育的困境。厘清家庭教养方式的转型实践,对于深入理解弥漫于整个社会的教育焦虑有重要意义。

With the development of socio-economic and the transformation of family structures,educational competition continues to intensify.Intensive parenting that parents need to invest a great deal of time,energy,and emotion because of its child-centered characteristic has become the dominant trend of parenting in current society.It is characterized by an emphasis on the value of the child’s achievements,the educational responsibilities of mothers,different degrees of involvement from all class.It can be seen that"intensive parenting"not only has an impact on children and parents,but also further increases gender inequality and class reproduction.In short,raising children will be more challenging.It is both individual puzzle and social problem.It will take the combined efforts of individuals,families,society,and the state to overcome the dilemma of parenting.By clarifying the transformation practices of parenting,we can gain a deeper understanding of the educational anxiety full of the whole society.