说“憨”论“呆”话人生——史湘云和香菱的遭际警示录

On life feom speakong "Silly" and "Dull" ——Admenition From shixiangyun's and XiangLing's Misfortune

“憨湘云醉眠芍药 ,呆香菱情解石榴裙”是曹雪芹亲笔写就的一大回文章。之所以在湘云的名字前加一个“憨”字 ;在香菱的名字前冠一个“呆”字 ,决非指这一时一事 ,而是对二人全部人生的综合考察评判和高度概括之后得出的最正确最形象的结论 ,意在告诉读者 ,无论在何种时代或何种地方 ,也无论环境条件如何 ,都必须保持清醒的头脑并且要做到知人识己 ,善待自我 ,否则 ,悲剧是不可避免的。

Eilly Xiangyun was drunken and slept in shaoyanyin. Dull xiangLing was affectionale to Baoyu because of a skirt ,which is a big chapter written by Caoxueqin personally Adding Silly and dull before xiangyun and xiangling respectively wasn't because of one thing happening at some time, but was the most vivid and correct, as well as highly summarized conclusion drawn by Caoxueqin from the two ladies' lives, which meant to telling the readers whenever and wherever,in any circumstance, one must keep cool, know oneself from head to heel as well as the others, treat oneself kindly and generously. otherwise, the tragedy is inevitable.