浅析沉迷者失恋根源及应对策略

Brief Analysis Lovelorn Source and Coping strategies of Addicted person

在一段恋情中,人们往往透过有色眼镜来看对方,从而看到自己想看到的东西。当对方由于种种原因,从言行上开始出现变化,即将退出这段感情时,沉迷者感受到被对方拒绝、无法忍受被拒绝的沮丧后,就会考虑采取一些过激的行为来报复对方。本文试图从心理学角度来分析沉迷者背后的原因,并提出应对办法。

In section of affections,the people often penetrate the colored spectacles to look at opposite party,see he wants to see.When opposite party for various reasons,starts from the words and deeds to present the change,when soon withdraws from this section of sentiments,the wallowing feeling is rejected by opposite party.After being unable to endure rejects depressed,wallowing will consider and adopt some extreme behaviors to retaliate opposite party.This article attempts through psychology sight to analyze the wallowing behind the reason,and points out how to deal with.