农村男性青年择偶困境解读——以云南大理白族自治州N村为例

An Interpretation of the Rural Young Men's Plight in Finding a Mate

婚姻缔结的过程并非机械的一种男女性别配对,而是具体而复杂的社会文化过程。在经济与文化趋于多元的当代中国社会,择偶困境往往是受宏观现实的多种影响所造成的。因此,择偶难问题不仅是农村男性的个人的问题,已经成为全社会的问题,而为了保障农村男性青年健康发展和农村社会的和谐稳定,需要对农村男性择偶问题加以关注,并采取切实可行的措施帮助他们找到合适的婚恋对象,解决择偶困境。

Concluding a marriage is no simple pairing between the sexes,but a specific and complex,social and cultural process.In the contemporary China when economy and culture tend to be diversified,mate finding plight is often caused by prevailing realities.Therefore,picking a wife is no mere problem of the rural young men,but a challenge for the society at large.In order to ensure the healthy development of young men in rural area and to maintain social harmony,it is important to take care of the issue and take necessary and feasible measures to help them out of the plight.