幼儿家长倾听行为现状及策略探析

Analyze the present situation and strategy of Parents listening behavior

家长倾听行为,指的是家长在与孩子沟通的过程中,鼓励孩子用各种方式表达自己的想法,主动认真的听取孩子想法并给与孩子及时积极的反馈的过程。调查显示,幼儿家长的倾听行为表现为家长失聪,片面倾听,虚假倾听,缺乏倾听方法。建立平等的亲子关系是有效倾听的前提,家长还要通过各种途径学习倾听孩子的技巧和方法。比如,安排一段专门的时间倾听孩子;用游戏的方式倾听;学会辨析式倾听等。

Parents listening behavior, refers to the parents in the process of communication with their children, encourage children to express their ideas in various ways, active carefully listen to the children and give children the idea in the positive feedback process. Investigation shows, listen to the behavior of parents for parents ofdeaf, one-sided to listen, false to listen,lack to listen. Establish the equality of the parent-child relationship is the premise of effective listening, parents have to through a variety of ways to learn listening skills and methods of child. For example, arrange a specific time to listen to children; listen to the way the game; learn todiscriminate listening etc..