从择偶观的变迁看择偶标准的时代性——论中国女性建国至今50多年的配偶选择

On the Epoch Characters of Mate-selecting Standard Viewed from its Changes ——Choice Made by Chinese Female in the Past 50 Years since the Foundation of New China

择偶标准是变化发展的,它一方面受政治变革、文化的影响,另一方面又与人们的生存方式、行为方式和价值观念息息相关,是二者相互作用的产物。50多年历史演进的事实表明:人们的择偶标准从单一化转向了多元化,远离了政治,淡化了政治因素、家庭背景等非个人因素,心理需求和情感需求得到了复归。多元化的择偶观既体现了传统的审美价值,又带有鲜活的现代色彩,有利于健康择偶观的建立。总之,择偶标准的变迁透视出时代发展的脉络。

Standard of mate-selecting is dynamic.Political reforms and cultural heritage as well as people's life style, way of doing things and value orientation exert great effect on the standard. In the past 50 years since the foundation of new China, the mate-selecting standard has undergone dramatic changes. Different from holding unitary standard, people tend to choose their mates by pluralistic standard, with the attention paid to individual emotion demand rather to the non-personal factors, such as political belief and family background. Pluralistic standard of mate-selecting inherits the traditional aesthetic value, and at the same time, it accords with modern times. Social development is mirrored clearly through the analysis of the establishment of healthy mate-selecting standard.