略论大学生恋爱观的教育和引导

College Students’ Outlook on Love and Ways of Instruction

随着依法治校理念的逐步形成,谈恋爱已成为大学生的一项基本权利。针对在校大学生恋爱所出现的新特点进行分析,认为对大学生谈恋爱的现象既无需回避,又要根据其产生发展的不同原因,进行积极地帮助和教育、引导,使之在正确认识爱情真谛的前提下,摆正爱情在人生中的位置,努力树立科学的人生观、价值观,积极实现从“本我”向“超我”的高层次发展。

As the concept of ruling schools by the law becomes ever-increasingly deep-rooted in people’s mind, courtship has become one of the basic rights of college students. In respect to the new characteristics that have arisen when college students are falling love with each other, this paper holds that such a phenomenon is neither flood nor beast. Instead, we should analyze the reasons why such a phenomenon arose, help and instruct the students to know the essence of true love, understand the role that love plays in one’s life, form a correct and scientific outlook of love and life, and develop from “ego” towards the higher level of “super-ego”.