试论《聊斋》爱情描写中的“知己之爱”

On Confidant's Love in The Stories of Liaozhai

在《聊斋志异》中蒲松龄提出了一种崇尚“知己之爱”的爱情观,他认为知己之爱的寻求必须立足于理性与感性的结合,从实实在在的现实感情出发,以缔结婚姻为最终目的;知己的酬答是不计利害的无私奉献,是永久、恒定的贞定;知己之爱的割舍是对对方心灵攀爬的结果,是灵魂深处痛楚的抉择。蒲氏的“知己之爱”的爱情观系统、完整,对今天的人们仍有借鉴意义。

This paper mainly discusses the love view of ＂confidant＇s love＂ that Pu Songling put forward and upheld. Pu, the author of The Stories of Liaozhai, held that the confidant＇s love should be based on the combination of rationality with sensibility. Starting from the realistic emotion, this kind of love can lead to the final expected result： marriage. The confidants＇ reward is selfless sacrifice to each other, the ever-lasting and eternal promise. The giving up of the confidant＇s love is the result of the probing into the other＇s menial world, the miserable choice deep in heart. Pu＇s love view of ＂confidant＇s love＂ is systematic and complete. It is still of some significance to men of today.