无情莫为多情恼——浅析我国社会对中学生恋爱行为的排斥心理的形成原因

There Is No Necessary Concern about the Emotionalists——Analysis of the Formation Cause of Our Society＇s Rejection Attitudes Towards the Love Behavior of Secondary School Students

现在，中学生恋爱较为普遍，绝大多数家长和教师都持反对态度，这一心理现象主要是受儒佛道伦理观、功利主义教育观、唯我独尊的法制观影响形成的．随着人本主义思想逐步深入人心，法治社会逐步完善，人们的伦理观、教育观和法制观也应有一个同步的转变。

In present-day society, secondary school students inclined to immerse themselves in love prevail, and a majority of parents and teachers hold objection attitude towards this social phenomenon, and tiffs psychological phenomenon is the aftermath triggered by the impact of the ethical notions on Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism, and by the influence of the educational conceptions of utilitarian and even by the affection of the legal system views of egotists. With the ideology based on human beings progressing into the heart of people and with the gradual improvement of society governed according to laws ,there must be a synchronous transition in respect of people＇s notions on ethics ,education and legal systems.