解决两性问题的途径——“对话”通达两性和谐

Dialogue: A Means for Solving Gender Problems and for Gender Harmony

霸权的文化传统和刻板的角色规范,在贬抑女人的同时,也使男人面临强大的社会压力。为改变不合理的价值规范和社会偏见,男女两性都做出了卓越的努力,向传统的价值社会发起了强有力的抗争,但事实一再地说明,任何一方的力量都无法建构一个符合两性愿望的社会构架。马丁.布伯的对话哲学,相信“凡真实的人生都是相遇的”,认为男女两性若要实现相互的和谐,最佳途径是选择对话,通过对话实现两者本位属性的回归。两性问题应由两性共同解决,对话是唯一的解决途径。

The cultural tradition of hegemony and the stiff roles of gender classification have brought great social pressure to men while belittling women. To get rid of the irrational values and social prejudices, both the men and the women have made arduous efforts and seriously questioned the traditional values of society. However, the facts have always proved that neither men nor women could build a social structure which can satisfy the needs of both sides. Martin Buber＇ s philosophy of dialogue holds that “all real living is meeting” and dialogue is the best and only way to realize the harmony between men and women and solve the gender problems as well as help them find their true self.