论父亲在亲子关系中的作用

On the father's function in relationship of parents and children

亲子关系是家庭中最基本和最重要的关系。在我国传统观念“男主外,女住内”的思想和现代社会激烈竞争影响下,很多父亲“淡出”家庭教育,认为母亲是孩子的主要抚养者,在亲子关系中起着主要的作用。实际上父亲在亲子关系中同样起重要的作用,对孩子的性别角色发展和社会性发展有着比母亲更为重要的影响作用,而且是母亲所不能替代的。

Relationship between parents and children is the most essential and important. In our country, there are tradition idea that says＂ man orient outside, women inside＂, paralleling with modem social competition＇ s influence, many father play a rarely role in family. They think mother is the children＇ s mainly feeder. In the fact, father has the same＇important function, even more important than mother in children＇ s sex development and social development. They can＇ t be substituted.