失恋过程:一个社会学的分析视角

Lovelorn Process:a Visual Angle of Sociological Analysis

失恋是高校校园内较为普遍的现象,受到社会大众和媒体各界的高度关注。本文从理论上探讨了真正意义上的失恋。我们将失恋过程视为一个失恋主体间行为互动的过程,并且对这种过程进行了深度的解析,指出其存在着情感骤降性、情感失衡性以及失恋过程的历时性等三个特征,接着我们又从信任的角度出发对失恋过程进行分析,认为失恋过程也即一种信任的丧失与另一种信任重建的过程:最后根据信任的特性提出了消除或缩短失恋过程的一些对策。

Nowaday, the lovelorn phenomenon is quite common on a university campus, which attracts great attention of the Mass Media and ordinary people. This paper first discusses theoretically what is in bereft of love and regards it as an interaction between the both parties invloved. Then three characteristics are thus anlysed： sudden reduction of the passions, imbalance of the passions and period of time in the lovelorn process. And finally, this paper puts forward some countermeasures of reducing or shortening the lovelorn process.