不良亲子互动与病态家庭结构——对几个中国问题家庭的剖析

The ill parents-children interaction and the morbid family structure:The analysical about the several chinese family of having problem

亲子关系一直是家庭教育中最受关注的一种长辈与幼辈之间的不对称互动关系。良好的亲子互动关系对儿童的身心发展起到很好的促进作用,而不良的亲子互动则会损害儿童的社会性发展。不良亲子互动往往会导致病态的家庭结构,病态家庭结构的主要表现形式———疏离、纠缠、三角缠、倒三角等,都与不良亲子互动有着密切的关系。因此,探讨不良亲子互动与病态家庭结构之间的互为因果关系具有重要的理论和实践意义。

The parentage is always the important relationship of the family education. I＇s a kind of asymmetrical relationship between the parents and the children. The good parentage will promote the development of children＇s corpus and psychology, but the ill parentage should hurt the children＇s social development. Time and again, the ill parentage will lead to the morbid family structure; on the other hand, the main expressiveness of the morbid family structure--enmeshment, disengagement, coalition, triangulation, peverse triangle etc. are intimately connected with the ill parentage . Therefore, probing the relationship of worse parentage and morbid family structure have important theoretical and practical meaning.