家庭教育异化与独生子女社会化不良问题分析

Analysis on unproper family education and problems of single-child'socialization

从大多数独生子女家庭教育现状来看,由于教育观念陈旧和父母教育子女的基本素养的缺失等原因,导致家庭教育异化现象:家长们不重视帮孩子进行情感财富积累,不注意正确价值观的引导及健康生存意识和习惯的培养,导致了孩子认知和情感发展不平衡,学习观念的功利主义,盲目的崇拜偶像和缺少健康生活所需要的基本知识和技能等不良问题。改变这种局面应更新家长的观念,发挥家庭在独生子女良好社会性的形成中的重要功能。

Because of the traditional view on children education and the lack of parents＇ basic quality for educating their offsprings, there are some problems in single-child family education ： parents haven＇t paid more attention to help children develop emotions, instruct right view of value as well as school children into good habits for healthy life. Therefore, children＇s cognition and feeling become unbalanced, and the aim for study becomes utilitarianised, and they are incline to worship idols blindly and don＇t have nessisary skills for healthy life. In order to give full play to families＇ indispensable role in one-child education , parents should take active strategies to facilitate children＇s better socialization.