论陶渊明与他人的和谐

On Tao Yuanming's Harmony with Other Persons

陶渊明与他人的和谐主要体现在与古圣贤先辈及同时代亲友的和谐两个方面。他与古圣贤先辈能古今同调,神交古贤,追慕先辈。与同时代亲友能平等相待,和睦相处。他善待亲人,择友而交,友爱朋友,与下层文人及农夫则亲如兄弟。其和谐的主要原因是:对家族隐逸之风的承继与改造,自身仁爱宽厚的君子情怀以及在日常交往中互相砥砺和影响。在人际交往中,他给我们树立了一个很好的榜样。这种交往艺术,值得我们每个人认真领会、修炼、借鉴,从而建立和谐的人际关系。

Harmony with other persons is majorly showed ： （ 1 ） With ancient wise men and ancestors, he could associate with and worship them very well; （2） With relatives and friends in his same time, he could treat them equally and harmoniously coexist with them. He could treat the low - intellectuals and parents as his brothers. The chief causes of harmony are ： He inherited and reformed the seclusion practice of his clan, he has gentleman mind of kind and generous, and they encouraged and influenced each other in everyday associations. In man- and - man＇s associations, he set up a good example for us. Everybody of us should earnestly comprehend, exercise and draw lessons from this kind of association art, then to construct harmonious associations for mankind.