女性视角下的男权意识——再评《中国式离婚》

The Male Chauvinism from the Feminine Angle——Comment on the play Chinese Divorce

《中国式离婚》以一个普通的中国家庭走向离婚的发展作为切入点,作者王海鸰以独特的女性视角将婚姻在现实中面临的无奈与伤痛放大呈现,尝试为婚姻囹圄中的女性指出一条理想的道路——对男性背叛的宽容。然而在这种细腻的女性关怀之中却凸现出强烈的男权意识,它巧妙地隐去了男女在维持感情、婚姻上的同等责任,把女性的平等意识压制在对男人的依附关系中,忽略了对造成婚姻破裂的真正原因的深层次思考。构建幸福家庭的先决条件是两性的平等,女性必须穿越男权文化的通道做一个大写的"人",与男性携手并进,才能构建出适合人类生存发展的更加理想、更加和谐的美好家园。

Taking the process of a normal Chinese divorce as the point of penetration, the author, with a distinctive female angle, reveals the helplessness and painfulness the Chinese marriage faces in the reality with the purpose to point out an ideal way for the females in marriage jail to tolerate the males＇betrayal. Yet the strong male chauvinism was salient in the tender and refined female care, and it subtly hides the male and female equal responsibility for maintaining their love and marriage, but attaches female＇s gender equality of Awareness to the male, and ignores the deep consideration of the causes that break the marriage up. The precondition of a happy marriage is the gender equality, so the female must break through the shackles of the male chauvinism to regard themselves as equal as the male.