论人格、交往行为与人际关系和谐

On Personality,Interactive Behavior and Harmonious Interpersonal Relationship

人格,作为人在实践活动中生成的内在精神要素和外在行为规范的系统结构,是以自我意识为核心的,是在与环境的交互作用中形成的,并被主体吸纳为自身的一种本质力量。人格影响和制约着人的交往行为,合理化的交往行为对人格的修养具有促进作用。良好的人格修养和交往行为合理化,是实现人际关系和谐的现实需要与重要标志,使整个社会成员形成良好的价值取向、交往行为模式,能够协调人际关系和规范社会秩序,有利于和谐人际关系的构建。

Personaity, as a systematic structure of spiritual essence inward and behaivior regulation outward that the human creates in practice,is taking self - consciousness as the core,is a kind of self essential strength abstracted by the people, it forms from interaction between humans and surroundings. Personaity affects and restricts the people＇s interactive behaviors. The rationalization interactive behaviors have the promotive effect on cultivating personality. The better personality cultivation and reasonable interactive behavior are the realistic demand and important symbol to fulfil personal relation in harmony, and form the better value conception and interactive behavior mode. They can corordinate the interpersonal relationship and regulate the social order. They are useful to build harmonious personal relation.