论家庭教育与独生子女的人格形成

On Family Education and Formation of Single-Child Personality

人格是一个人心理面貌的总和,是个体间相互区别的主要标志。家庭作为对人格形成有重要影响的因素之一,具有重要作用。独生子女的人格特征(特别是不成熟人格特征)形成的根本原因是独生子女在家庭中的角色和地位所决定的,针对独生子女以自我为中心、挫折耐受力低、认知结构片面化的特点,家庭对独生子女进行人格教育的方法主要是耳濡目染、潜移默化,不能包办代替、过分监护。要正确处理好管束、期望、教导、关爱之间的关系,不断改进对独生子女进行人格教育的方法。

Personality is the total sum of a person＇ s psychological appearances and an important mark of distinguishing individuals. As an important factor influencing the formation of one＇ s personality, family has an unneglected role. The paper illustrates in detail the role and place of single - child in his family--one of the fundamental factor in forming single - child＇ s personality （ especially his nonmature personal characteristics）, and thus points out the characteristics of the family＇ s education of single - child＇ s personality, the main problems and their corresponding solutions.