两性交流理解的新方式——评析《恋爱中的女人》

The New Way To Understand the Communication Between Man And Woman Analyzed In Women In Love

D.H.Lawrence是20世纪英国著名的现实主义小说家,对于两性关系进行了勇敢的探索,表达了一种新的理解方式。通过对于他的小说《恋爱中的女人》的分析与批判,D.H.Lawrence勇敢地探索出男女对于恋爱与婚姻的新观念,展现了一种两性交流理解的新方式。D.H.Lawrence在《恋爱中的女人》中解析了两对爱人的成长经历,证明了男女需要保持和尊重各自人格的独立性与完整性,才能真正达到相互交流理解的两极平衡。D.H.Lawrence从一个新的角度描绘出一幅两性关系完美结合的理想画面。

D. H. Lawrence, the great British novelist in the 20th century, is the pioneer of a new kind of understanding and presentation of sexuality. Through a critical analysis of his works Women In Love, Lawrence boldly explores his special view on the relationship between man and woman. In Women In Love, by the comparison of two couples＇ love and marriage, Lawrence proves that too strong will and extreme individuality cause destructive love between man and woman. Only if man and woman keep and respect each other＇s individuality, the balanced relationship will be in the state of star-equilibrium. By criticizing the rigid concept of marriage like a bandage under conventional culture, Lawrence draws the idealized picture of the perfect relationship between man and woman from a new angle.