大学生婚恋观与高校德育

The Concept of Love and Marriage of University Students and Moral Education in Colleges and Universities

婚恋观作为一种观念形态,是人们对恋爱、婚姻和性的问题的一种基本的看法和态度,随时代变迁而发生变化。大学生的恋爱问题随着大学生中恋爱现象的日益普遍,当代大学生对恋爱和婚姻的认识及态度,对高校德育是一个挑战。通过对云南省高校大学生婚恋观的调查,我们可以看到:当代大学生择偶标准较为理性,注重个人品质;恋爱婚姻指向性不太强,婚姻信任度不高;对"性"的态度更为开放和宽容。我们认为,当代大学生婚恋观的特点提醒高校德育工作者:对于大学生的恋爱现象和行为决不能简单的回避或漠视,而是应采取相应的得力措施,来消除其不利因素和影响。

The concept of love and marriage is a kind of ideological conception. It is also a basic perspective and attitude towards the issue of love, marriage and sex. It changes as time changes, and it is popular that university students fall in love, so contemporary university students＇ understanding and attitude towards love and marriage are the challenge to the moral education in colleges and universities. According to the survey of students＇ concept of love in colleges and universities, we can see that the norm of choosing spouse for contemporary university students are rational, and they tend to pay more attention to the individual quality without clear direction of love and marriage and strong trust of marriage, but their attitude towards sex tends to be more tolerant and opening than before. The characteristics of the concept of love and marriage of current university students suggest that people who engage in moral education in colleges and universities should not ignore or avoid the love phenomena of university students, take the corresponding measures to eliminate their negative factors and effects.