摘要
常听人们这样说：“人比人，气死人”，“不比不知道，一比吓一跳”。这样的说法充分暴露出了一些人在与别人进行比较之后的失落心情和不平心理。这样的失落心情和不平心理．在我们这个所谓的社会转型期里，确实是非常普遍的。然而．这种状况对于人的自身发展、和谐人际关系的培育以及积极人生态度的确立是十分不利的。
By Qu Jing Tong You （obviously a pen name here meaning： winding path leading to a secluded spot）
People are often heard to say, ＂It would only drive you crazy to find that the world favors the lucky;＂ or, ＂Lest you should compare, you will have but yourself to scare.＂ Such expressions aptly reflect a sense of frustration or loss resulting from a tactless, self-defeating comparison between oneself and others. Mental imbalance of this kind is all too common in this period of social transformation,
出处
《英语学习》
2009年第2期52-55,共4页
English Language Learning
