从传统民俗看女性禁忌的中断及其欲望表达

Women's Interruption of Forbiddance and Their Desire Expression from the Perspective of Traditional Custom

女性禁忌在千百年的历史传承中规范着女性的行为举止、生活生产,成为一股无形的具有强大约束性的精神力量。尽管女性欲望在层层禁忌中处于压抑状态,但却从未消失过,并始终寻求一种社会许可的方式来宣泄,来表达,而女性民俗即是一种表达途径。这其中,节日民俗的狂欢性、颠覆性和反常规性,使女性敢于打破禁忌,对男性话语权进行反叛,尽情释放生命中的原始欲望;婚姻习俗以象征器物、隐晦的暗示作为婚前性教育的手段;日常生活中的女红、女书则成为女性生命中最温暖的慰藉,成为女性欲望的诗意表达。

Women＇ s forbiddance after thousand years of inheritance has normalized their behaviors and manners, and ways of living and working, becoming a kind of invisible and powerful sanction in spirit. In spite of a dull state under various forbiddances, never can women stop their pursuit for a way to catharsis under social permission. The way is women＇ s custom, under which women dare to break forbiddance and rebel against man＇ s discourse right, releasing their primeval desire, expressing their spree, subverting and heterodoxy during festivals and folk - custom. In marital custom, symbolized vessels and unveiled hints are taken as methods of antemarital sex instruction ; Needlecraft and female scripts are the warmest solatia in women＇ s life, becoming a poetic expression of their desire.