摘要
Dear Mr.Herman,I was brought up in a conservative family.In the course of my growing up,my parents of-ten told me many"shoulds and should nots".Iam very uncomfortable with this way of teach-ing,and I hate it.Although my parents are kindand honest,they don’t understand me at all.Iput a lot of efforts into communicating withthem before I turned 21,but I failed over andover again. They do not listen to me. Now I am24 and believe that it is impossible to talkfrankly with my father.I usually feel extremelysad about this.Why is it so difficult to