代沟理论下的农村亲子关系及其调适

The Rural Parenthood and Adjustment Under the Theory of Generation Gap

亲子关系是家庭人际关系的核心内容之一,它与夫妻关系处于同样重要的地位。但不同的是,亲子关系联系的是年龄、心理、思想观念、行为方式、成长环境、所受教育、生活环境、生活阅历都非常不相同的两代人。亲子关系研究必然有自身独特的视角,代沟理论正是符合亲子关系特点的理论之一。积极的交流和沟通、尊重和宽容的眼光、良好的家庭教养方式以及亲代的继续社会化,是改变农村亲子关系现状,消除代际对立,建立和谐亲子关系的有效方法。

The parenthood is one of the most important relations in the domestic relationship. It is as important as the husband- wife relationship. The parenthood is affected by age, mentality, ideological outlook, behaviors, environment of growth, education, living conditions, life experiences and so on. The study of parenthood must have its own unique vision and the theory of generation gap is one of the theories that conform to the parenthood relationship. Positive communications, respect and tolerance, good family education and the continual socialization of parenthood are the effective measures to change the present state of the rural parenthood, eliminate the antagonistic feelings among generations and establish a harmonious parenthood relationship.