大学生恋爱观的性别差异浅析——以北京市某些高校为例

On the gender differences over the value of love——A case study of the undergraduates in Beijing

大学生恋爱是当代中国大学校园中普遍存在的现象。使用访谈法、观察法和文献法,运用社会建构理论和交换理论,从社会性别角度对当代大学生的恋爱观进行探讨,有以下发现:在恋爱时机的选择上,男大学生表现得更加积极主动,而女大学生在恋爱机会的选择上仍旧受男性的影响;在恋爱态度方面,受家庭因素的影响,男大学生比女大学生获得更多的支持和鼓励;在择偶标准方面,男女大学生的标准逐渐趋于一致,即对外貌和能力等因素都很重视。

It is a common phenomenon that Chinese undergraduates hold different values of love.This study is based on interviewing,observation and literature reviewing with the theories of social construction and exchanging,in the hope of research over the gender differences on the value of love.Result shows male students are more active,while females cherish the male dominance;males have more family supports than females;and their criteria remain more or less similar in both appearance and competence.