我国第一代独生子女婚恋问题

On Love and Marriage of the First Generation of Only Children in China

中国第一代独生子女最大的已进入而立之年,最小的也正值谈婚论嫁的黄金时期。他们的婚恋期待、婚恋方式、择偶标准、生育意愿等越来越与传统社会文化相疏离,越来越挑战传统的价值规范。这跟整个社会环境密切相关,特别是在当今急速变迁的时代里,在富裕的物质生活基础上,道德约束越来越苍白无力,部分人的婚恋偏离"以爱情为基础"的基本要求,婚姻质量下降、家庭不稳定等伴随而来。家庭、学校、社会要担负起各自的责任,帮助他们端正婚恋心态,纠正婚恋行为偏差,教育引导他们树立正确的婚恋观,使他们在未来的人生道路上顺利前行,和谐发展。

Of the first generation of only children the oldest are in their thirties and even the youngest are already in the golden time of marriage. Their expectation of love and marriage, way of love and marriage, standard of for the selection of a spouse and wish of birth are increasingly drifting apart from the traditional social culture and increasingly challenging the traditional values. All this is closely related with the curerent whole social environment. In this rapidly changing age, especially, based on rich material life the force of moral constraint is getting weaker and weaker; some people＇s love and marriage even stray from the basic prerequisite of ＂based on love＂; and the quality of marriage is declining, which is followed by family unstability. It is suggested that families, scools and society take their own responsibility and try to help the fist-generation only children take a correct mentality on love and marriage, correct their mistakes of love and marriage, educate and guide them to develop a right view on love and marriage to enable them to advance smoothly and grow up harmoniously.