“罂粟花”一样的爱情——析席慕容《一棵开花的树》的爱情观

Poppy-flower-style Love:An analysis of the Outlook of Love Reflected from Xi Murong's A Blossoming Tree

在席慕容的《一棵开花的树》中,男女两性关系是不对等的,女性缺乏自身的主体性与独立人格,并崇尚单方面的自我奉献与自我牺牲,男性中心主义意识隐约可见,诗歌所表现的爱情观其实与现代意义上的爱情观尚有距离。普通读者往往是从正面意义上来把握这首诗,欣赏、痴爱并歌颂其中所体现的爱情,但却很少能识别其背后隐藏的负面性。正是从这个意义上来说,此诗所体现的爱情观就象"罂粟花"一样,表面上看起来美丽绝伦,充满诱惑力,然而其本质上却是"有毒"的,因此也是不值得提倡的。

The relationship between male and female as is reflected from Xi Murong＇s poem A Blossoming Tree is asymmetric：for females,there is a lack of subjectivity and independent personality,and,an advocate of self-sacrifice and dedication;for males,there is the practice of androcentrism.There is in fact a gap between the outlook of love in the poem and that in the modern world.The poem is often,however,appreciated,cherished and praised for the outlook among many readers,but the negative sense behind is often neglected.It is in this sense,we argue that the outlook of love in the poem is like poppy flowers,which appear to be beautiful and charming but is poisonous and therefore,must not be advocated.