试析“喜不见喜”的民俗禁忌——以福建漳州礼俗为例

On the Taboo of "Happy Events Avoided Being Met" in Southern Fujian——By a Case of Custom in Zhangzhou City

"喜不见喜"作为一种婚姻、生育等礼俗中的民俗禁忌,在闽南有很深的渊源和影响,主要体现在限制新婚或生育的交往行为上,是人对生育、对生命诞生的细致入微的关切,也表达了闽南人在人际交往中体现的细腻关心。它包含着神秘的命运观,阴阳和谐思想等中国传统的观念,体现了闽南人们独特的社会心理和行为方式。

＂Happy events avoided being met＂,a taboo about marriage and birth custom deeply rooted and having wide effects in Southern Fujian,is mainly reflected in restriants on wedding and birth,and embodies the consideration not only on the progress of life,such as birth,aging,engagement,marriage and death,but also on human communications.In the meanwhile,it reflects the unique social psychology and behavior patterns of this region,and the traditional ideas of Yin-Yang harmony and fate.