大学生恋爱观教育浅议

Discussion on the Love View Education of College Students

爱情是人类社会生活的重要领域,也是每一位大学生成长过程中都要面对的人生课题。"恋爱"是与"爱情"时常相伴的一个概念,与"恋爱"、"爱情"相关的"性"是一个比较敏感的话题。长期以来,高校对于大学生恋爱问题大都持有两种"极端"态度,偏离了大学生的心理需求和实际需要;"性"的禁锢和封闭以及性教育的落后,使大学生对"性"产生了极大的神秘感,受大众传媒的影响所获得的既不科学又零碎的性知识,往往导致他们用这些错误的理论去指导实践,由此产生的心理矛盾冲突或不正当的性行为,严重影响着他们的身心健康和正常学习生活。提升大学生恋爱观教育,要在观念层面上,引导大学生树立正确的恋爱价值观;在生理层面上,加强性知识教育,提升恋爱的层次和品位。

Love is an important area in people＇ social life,also is an unavoidable matter in the growth of college students.＂Being in love＂ a concept that often accompanied by ＂love＂,＂sex＂ which related to ＂being in love＂ and ＂love＂ is a sensitive topic.For a long time,most of universities hold two ＂extreme＂ attitudes towards the problems of college students＇ love,which departures from the psychological needs and the actual needs of students.The detention of ＂sex＂ and backward sex education enable students to produce great mystery sense on ＂sex＂.Errors impacted by unscientific and fragmented knowledge,which obtained by the mass media,often used to guide practice,lead to psychological conflict or illicit sex,and affect their health and normal school life seriously.To enhance the love education of college student,this paper suggest that the students should be guided to establish the correct values of love on the conceptual level,sex education should be strengthened and the level of love and taste should be enhanced on the physical level.