《三言》所反映的家庭道德生活择偶观

The Ideas of Spouse-selection from Mid-Ming to Qing Dynasty

明清之际经济基础发生了重大的变化,也表现在家庭道德生活择偶观方面。郎才女貌,男子的才、德也非常重要,男女之情因女子容貌而起,即情由感生者不乏其人;"合二姓之好,上以事宗庙,而下以继后世"的婚姻非常重视门第观念;同时商品经济的发展还刺激了婚姻惟论财势的风气;后来平等、自由的观念提供了夫妻之间情爱的发展,情爱也成为人们择偶的一个因素。

Through analyzing literature relating to ideas of spouse-selection in the novel Sanyan,this paper explores the ideas of spouse-selection from mid-Ming to Qing Dynasty.During that period,at the level of economic foundation there are some significant changes which result in the changes of spouse-selection ideas： the idea that talented guy and beautiful lady are ideal spouse comes into vogue;the fact that money gradually has much influence on the idea of people＇s choosing spouse challenges the idea that the respective family of a couple should match with each other;love and feeling inconspicuously become an consideration in selecting spouse.These changes indicate that considerations of individual in selecting spouse challenge those of family.