壮族传统社会的夫妻角色:《坡芽歌书》解读

The Couples' Roles in Poya Madrigal:Interpretation on Poya Folk Songs with Sociology Perspective

坡芽情歌中,男性与女性在对妻子角色的理解上存在分歧:男性期望的妻子角色是智慧而多情、美丽而健康、持家亦耕种、主内而辅外;而女性所认同的妻子角色则是妩媚且懂礼、主内又主外;女性期望的丈夫角色是年轻健壮,富贵帅气;真心相爱、深情厚意;男性所认同的丈夫角色则是珍惜所爱、体贴理解、勤劳独立。总体上,男性心中的妻子角色具有功利的特征,而女性对丈夫的期望则更具情感色彩。

In Poya madrigal, the expectations of wife are different between man and woman. In man＇s heart wife＇s roles are wisdom and sentimental, beauty and healthy, to keep house and farm, Lord inside and auxiliary outside; while the wife＇s roles recognized by women are charming and understand the ritual, Lord in and out home. The husband＇s roles that women expect are young and hale, rich and handsome, truly in love and kindness; the husband＇s roles by Male recognized are to cherish, considerate, understanding, industrious and independent. Overall, the wife＇s roles in male＇s heart have utilitarian features, while women＇s have more emotional colors.