对大学生恋爱伤害及性行为的探讨

On College Students' Suffering from Love Affairs and their Sexual Behavior

大学生在谈恋爱的过程中受到不同类型、不同程度的伤害。这些伤害导致大学生心理、躯体、行为等出现异常表现,因此,必须提升其选择爱的对象和行为、鉴别爱和表达爱、接受爱和拒绝爱,以及发展爱的能力。大学生对恋爱过程中出现的性行为以及同居现象有较高的认同度,这表明了他们开放的恋爱观和理解、宽容的性态度。家庭、学校、社会都应该采取有效措施,提高其对性爱和性的责任的认识,正确理解爱情的内涵,积极帮助他们健康、安全地度过"性待业期"。

College students are likely to suffer from love affairs in different ways and in varying degrees. The suffering may lead to their abnormal reaction in their psychology, physiology and behavior. Thus, it is necessary to improve their ability to choose their love and their behavior, to judge and express love, to accept and refuse love, and to develop love. College students are quite likely to accept the sexual behavior in love and premarital inhabitation. This means that they have an open outlook of love and a receiving, tolerant sex attitude. Therefore, families, colleges and society should take effective measures to promote college students＇ awareness of the sexual love and the responsibility of love, understanding of the connotation of love, to help them healthily and safely get through the ＂ period of waiting for love＂.