父子冲突与主奴关系——从《三十而立》看代际矛盾中秩序与自由的张力

Conflict with the master and slave relationship between father and son——From thirty to see the contradictions in the inter-generational tension of order and freedom

中国文化重父权的特点,使以"父子冲突"为主的代际关系呈现"主奴关系"的实质,其间充满了守秩序与争自由两种诉求的背反张力,特定的社会人格的形成,需要家庭这一社会细胞的认同和涵养,在代际关系中表现为代表秩序一方的"严父"的督责,现代社会却视追求"自由"为个人的天赋权利,这种矛盾在《三十而立》中有细致入微的展现,沿小说叙事的脉络,可以深入剖析矛盾的文化渊源,揭示了现代个体健全人格确立的真正含义和路径。

patriarchal Chinese culture is characterized by heavy, so that the ＂parent-child conflict＂ based intergenerational relations have shown a ＂master-slave relationship＂ the essence of which is fraught with a free two kinds of orderly and fight back against the demands of the tension, specific social personality formation of families in need of this recognition and conservation of social cells, intergenerational relations in the performance of the order represented one of the ＂strict father＂of the Governor＇s responsibility, modern society has regarded the pursuit of ＂freedom＇as the individual natural rights, such contradiction in the thirty in a nuanced show, this narrative along the novel context, in-depth analysis of the contradictions of the cultural origins of the modern individual to reveal the true meaning of a sound personality and to establish the path.