试论家庭心理素质教育

On Family Psychological Quality Education

家庭心理素质教育在素质教育改革中必不可少。在实施家庭心理素质教育的过程中 ,家长应注意营造良好的家庭氛围 ,提高自身的心理素质 ;其次 ,家长的期望值要与孩子的实际情况、兴趣爱好相统一 ;另外 ,家长还应注重加强对孩子的耐挫能力、自控能力、健全人格、自尊心、自信心的培养 ,教会孩子与人交往 ,帮助孩子克服依赖心理和嫉妒心理 ,这些都是改变独生子女心理素质普遍较差之现状 。

It is necessary to strengthen family psychological quality education for the whole quality education reform.In the course of implementing this kind of education parents must take care to construct a good family atmosphere and raise their own psychological quality;then their expectations must be compatible with the childrens reality and interest;besides ,they should also pay attention to cultivating the childrens ability to endure setbacks and control themselves,sound character,sense of self respect and self confidence.They must teach their children how to communicate with others and help them to surmount dependence and envy.These are efficient ways to change the universal poor state of psychological quality in one child family and promote development of the mental and physical health.