父母婚姻关系与子女婚恋心理的主观体验研究

Study for Subjective Experience of Parents' Marital Relations and Children’s Marital Psychology

通过对22名在校大学生的深度访谈,研究他们对父母婚姻关系及其自身婚恋心理的主观体验。采用QSRNvivo7.0软件对两组被试访谈的内容进行分析,结果发现父母婚姻关系与子女婚恋心理存在一定的关系;在被试的主观体验中,父母婚姻关系的幸福与否,与父亲在婚姻中的影响有更为重要的关系;被试对父母关系有更多的消极评价与感受,必然在"对爱情的期待"、"婚恋的态度"、"与家人关系"和"评价自己的爱人"等方面使用更多的负面词汇;被试对"自己在婚恋中的角色"与"婚恋中重要东西"的评价,没有明显差异。研究结果对婚恋心理的进一步研究以及心理咨询的实践工作有积极意义。

This study interviewed 22 students in depth to understand their subjective experience about their parents＇ marital relations and their marital psychology. Analyzing the interview contents of two groups by QSRNvivo7.0 software, we found that ： 1） there is a correlativity between parents＇ marital relations and children＇s marital psychology; 2） in subjective experience of the students, whether parents＇ marriage is happy is connected with the father; 3） the more students have negative evaluations and emotions about their parents＇ relationship, considering the coming love, attitude for marital, relation with families and judging their lovers, the more they use negative vocabularies; 4） there is no difference between which role is played and what is important in marriage; 5） in future, researchers need to study how self-character impacts on marital psychology. This research has the positive impacts on the marital psychology research as well as the psychological counseling.