“剩女”现象的心理学解析

The Psychological Analysis of the "3S Lady" Phenomenon

"剩女"是近年来新出现的现象,然而"剩女"的出现并非偶然。从心理学的角度看,"剩女"出现的原因除了女性自身过度追求完美和失恋阴影的固着心理外,还有男性方面的男性中心、认知偏差与过度自卑,以及社会舆论对"剩女"的期望压力和刻板印象。解决"剩女"问题的有效途径主要有树立正确的婚恋观、提倡"姐弟型"婚恋和社会的理解和宽容。

The ＂3S lady＂ is a new phenomenon in recent years, but the appear of the ＂35 lady＂ is not an acooent, from a psychological perspective, the emergence of the ＂3S lady＂ has women＇s pursuit of perfection excessively and lovelorn shadow, or men＇s androcentrism, cognitive bias and excessive self-esteem, or the public＇s expectation pressure and stereo-types. The effective way to solve the 3S lady problem is to develop a correct concept of marriage, and to promote ＂type-sib- lings marriage＂ and understanding and tolerance from the society.