论大学生恋爱暴力及其教育路径选择

On the Love Violence and the Education Path of College Students

目前恋爱暴力之定义至少应在暴力对象和暴力动因两方面做适当修正。而审视当下,生命敬畏感与恋爱责任之丧失以及恋爱教育之缺位,使大学生正以"爱"为名伤害着恋人,其表现形式包括嘲讽贬斥、冷战漠视、恐吓威胁、窥探控制、肢体冲突和性伤害等。为此,应通过衡平恋爱三要素、恋爱能力教育、恋爱责任教育、四位一体疏导等恋爱教育途径,以降低大学生恋爱暴力的发生率。

The definition of love violence at least should be appropriately corrected in two aspects： target of violence and violence cause now.Owing of lacking the reverence for life and duty of love,and the absence of love education,the college students are hurting the lover in the name of＂love＂,such as using irony words,the＂cold＂violence,the threating,controlling the lover,physical conflict and damage etc.Therefore,we should balance the three elements of love,through the love ability education,love duty education so as to reduce the incidence of love violence.