摘要
青春期自我意识的觉醒和性意识的觉醒,使青少年在父母眼中变得很"陌生"。读懂青春期的身心发展,理解青春期的心理冲突,已经是父母能够与青春期孩子进行积极"对话"的前提条件。青春期孩子通过"同伴价值感"、"同性价值感"、"异性价值感"三条路径的自我价值体验的需求尤其强烈,随之带来了与已有"道德感"的冲突和三个价值感之间不平衡时的自动调整冲突。这些"冲突"常常使孩子面临"抉择的烦恼",特别需要合理"砝码"的加入——即成年人的理解与指导,使之顺利走过人生的"雨季",享受绚烂的"花季"。
Self- consciousness and sexual awakening in adolescence makes young people become quite ＂strange＂ in their parents＇ eyes. Understanding teenagers＇ physical and mental development, as well as adolescent psychological conflict have be- come prerequisite of parents communicating with teenagers actively. Adolescents have strong demand of ＂peer esteem＂, ＂homo- sexual esteem＂ and ＂heterosexual worth＂. These three experience bring existing ＂moral＂ sense of the value and conflicts of im- balance. These ＂conflicts＂ often make children face irritation of choice, which needs a reasonable standard, - namely adult＇ s understanding and guidance to help the teenagers go through the turning point and let them enjoy the gorgeous youth.
出处
《中国性科学》
2013年第9期109-112,共4页
Chinese Journal of Human Sexuality
关键词
青春期
理解
指导
Adolescence
Understanding
Guidance
