《红楼梦》中三个家庭教育问题探析

A Case Study of Family Education in The Dream of the Red Mansion

本文剖析了《红楼梦》中贾母与贾宝玉间的隔代亲现象、林黛玉个性与寄养的关系、贾环堕落的家 教原因等 ,指出隔代亲并非是一种必然的社会心理倾向 ,其形成 ,除祖辈因年龄趋老而变化的心态外 ,还取决 于微观环境中的群体因素、祖辈的个人因素和被亲孙辈本身的特点 ;隔代亲具有明显的选择性。认为儿童被 寄养 ,对良好个性的形成非常不利。对儿童采取长辈各自为政不一致要求的教养方式 。

We analysed the intimacy of every two generation between grandma and baoyu,the Lin′s individuality and lived away from home,and the family′s factors of huan′s degeneration is not inevitable social-mental.It′s determinded by the factors of colony in microcosmic circumstances,the individuality of ancestors,and the individuality of grandson,besides aged mentality.Children who lived away from home is very difficlt in forming better individuality.The different upbringing would harm children′s individuality.