从寄妾词看宋代丈夫的纳妾行为

On Song Dynasty Men's Concubinage Behaviour from Poems to Concubines

在约2万首的《全宋词》中,30首寄妾词实属难得。透过这些词,我们可以十分清晰地洞见宋代丈夫的纳妾动机缘于妾的美貌与痴情、温柔与多艺、女红与性事。而当丈夫因年老体弱等原因遣妾或因某种特殊情况使得夫妾分离时,他们则会借此抒怀。从宋代寄妾词中,我们明显感受到夫妾之间不平等的爱情,更感受到丈夫们的得意与侍妾们的无奈。

In a full collection of Song dynasty poetry of about 20,000 poems, there are only 30 written to men concubines. By reading these poems, it is clearly recognized that men from Song dynasty take concubines for their prettiness, loyalty, gentleness, accomplishments, needle work skills and sex. When a man departs from his concubines due to old age, feebleness or other particular reasons, he writes poems to express his feelings. These poems also show imbalanced love between a man and his concubines, the satisfaction of the man and the helpless of the concubines.