论中国古代婚恋文化对当代婚姻生活的启示

Chinese Ancient Marriage Culture on Contemporary Marital Life Enlightenment

中国古代儒家经典和爱情文学作品等对爱情和婚姻生活做出了规范和描述,展现了历史悠久且特色鲜明的古代婚恋文化,其蕴含的诸多积极有益的元素,对当今社会的爱情婚姻生活都有所裨益。当代社会由于生活方式的转变,人们的婚恋观也出现了变革,"不婚同居"、"闪婚"、"闪离"和婚外情等问题影响着社会的稳定、和谐发展,古代传统婚恋观中对婚姻的谨慎态度、对婚礼的规范、对婚姻长久稳定的要求、对爱情和婚姻的真挚与忠贞的强调,都可以为解决这些矛盾和问题提供参考。同时,古代婚恋文化中对夫妻相守之道和如何处理好婚姻与家庭现实之间的矛盾等问题也给出了有益的启示。

The ancient Chinese Confucian classics and the works of love literature on love and marriage life made a specifica- tion and description, to show the long history and distinctive ancient marriage culture, which contains a lot of useful elements of today＇s society, love and marriage life is beneficial. Modern society because of lifestyle changes, people＇s concept of mar- riage has changed, ＂the unmarried cohabitation＂ ,＂flash marriage＂, ＂flash off＂ and an affair affect the stability of the society, the harmonious development, the ancient tradition of marriage in the cautious attitude of marriage, the wedding, sincere and specification of marriage faithful long-term stability requirements, the emphasis on love and marriage, can provide reference for solving these contradictions and problems. At the same time, between the couple together the ancient marriage culture and how to deal with the reality of marriage and family conflicts and other issues also gives a beneficial enlightenment.