婚姻基本问题研究

Study on the Basic Problems of Marriage

对于婚姻的正确认识和理解,直接关乎夫妻生活的质量。从婚姻内涵及其利弊的分析入手,揭示了两点:一是夫妻双方只有不断改进完善,共同提高,才能逐渐相互契合,融洽相处;二是夫妻间的冲突和"战争",是迫使两人自觉反省和成长的一种手段。在此基础上,通过对夫妻蜜月期、磨合期、平稳期等不同阶段内在联系的探讨,进一步明确夫妻和睦相处需要一个进化过程。在这一过程中,人们从最初的"相对幼稚",经逐渐成长,最终走向成熟。

It is the basic condition of harmony between the couple to understand marriage properly. Firstly, by ana- lyzing the connotation and the pros and cons of marriage, it can reveal that the couple need only continue to improve each other in order to gradually fit each other; Secondly, conflicts and ＂wars＂ between husband and wife can be a means of forcing both sides to promote introspection and growth conscientiously. On this basis, the paper dis- cussed the internal inevitable connection of honeymoon, couple running, the stationary phase, and further clarified that the marital harmony required an evolutionary process. Through out this process, the reader can get a glimpse of evolution experience of people from the ＂relatively immature＂ to eventually mature.