青年学生择偶、择友期望行为的实验研究

An experimental study on spouse and opposite sex friends' expectations in college students

目的 探讨青年学生择偶、择友偏好的倾向及可能原因。方法 用短语描述“理想恋人”及“理想异性朋友”的个性 ,并与异性父 (母 )进行比较。结果 “理想恋人”与“理想异性朋友”的个性相比 ,其与异性父 (母 )的相似性更高 ,“理想恋人”与“理想异性朋友”在描述用语个数及描述用语与异性父 (母 )的相似性得分方面高度相关 (正相关 )。结论 父母的个性影响子女择偶、择友 ,子女理想的恋人及异性朋友与异性父 (母 )个性相似 。

Objective To explore the ideas and possible causes of selecting spouse and opposite sex friends in college students. Methods To let students describe the personalities of 'ideal spouse'and' ideal opposite sex friend' with phrases and compare the phrases with their opposite sex parent's personality. Results The similar degree of'ideal spouse'to opposite sex parent was higher than 'ideal opposite sex friend'; there were high positive correlation of number of describing phrases and similar degree to opposite sex parent between personality of 'ideal spouse' and 'ideal opposite sex friend' of college students. Conclusions The personality of parent might effect the children's selecting spouse and opposite sex friends, the personality of 'ideal spouse' and 'ideal opposite sex friend' might be similar to their opposite sex parent, the causes might lie in many aspects.