独生子女的协作关系与道德发展

Cooperativeness and moral Developmenr of Only sons and only Daughters

协作关系的建立是儿童道德从他律向自律转化的关键环节。协作关系的建立使儿童超越了自我中心阶段 ,建立了真正的道德关系 ,产生了强烈的道德需要 ,感受到了社会性愉快 ,道德理性得到了发展。独生子女家庭道德关系的特殊性使其协作关系的建立呈现出一些独有的特点 ,包括独生子女在家庭内部难以建立真正意义的协作关系 ;在家庭外部建立协作关系时会遇到因自身能力原因而产生的障碍 ;在缺乏协作关系基础上产生的他律性道德的某些特征会或多或少地影响其自律性道德的发展 。

The establishment of cooperative relationships makes the turning point in children's moral development from external disciplining into internal disciplining.In results in children's overstepping the self centered stage,the establishment of true moral relationships,a strong desire for morality,a strong feeling of social happiness and the development of moral rationality.The special features of the moral reeationships in families with only son or only daughter reflects uniqueness in many ways in the establishment of cooperative relationships.