论夫权占优婚姻习俗及其主要影响

Study on Marriage Customs Relating to Husbands' Privileges and Their Influence

现代婚姻家庭普遍存在夫权占优的婚姻习俗,即丈夫享有比妻子更多的婚姻资源支配权,主要包含:婚姻主导权、优先发展权、家产控制权、家务豁免权、家庭符号权、子女冠姓权,部分丈夫还巧取了优先出轨权、强行施暴权等。妻子群体在婚姻家庭中普遍不平等的地位决定了女性个体在父母家庭、职场与社会领域中的不平等待遇。它的存在有历史、现实和环境等方面的因素。要建立夫妻平权的婚姻家庭文化,应当从"男娶女嫁"的婚礼走向平等结婚,从"子女随父姓"走向夫妻平等分享子女冠姓权,从"男主外,女主内"走向平等承担家务,并营造平等的社会性别语境,完善相关社会制度。

In modern families there is often a convention of wide privilege for husbands, where the husband enjoys more rights to family resources than his wife, such as： dominating the wedding, preferential development, control of property, exemption from housework, and the passing of surnames onto children. Some husbands even consider they have rights to have affairs and to domestic violence. The unequal status of the wife groups in marriage determines the status of the individual woman＇s unequal treatment in the parents family, workplace, and society. This is due to tradition, history, reality and environment. To establish an equal marital culture in a family, there needs to be a change in the attitude of ＂men marry, women marry to＂ weddings to weddings of equality, from only fathers＇ surnames hanging ＂men govern outside, women onment of gender, and improving the