第一代独生子女择偶观初探

Preliminary Research on Mate-selecting Standards of China's First Generation of Only Childs

第一代独生子女群体与非独生子女群体在择偶观方面差异不太明显,"道德品质"成为择偶的首选标准,择偶的自主性上体现了中庸之道,"男大女小"和"男女差不多"是择偶的最佳年龄组和方式,"趋同与求强"是择偶的最优能力组合方式,"自由恋爱"的择偶方式备受青睐。第一代独生子女群体的择偶观总体体现了"扬"与"弃"的统一,其中内部各群体的择偶观体现了相似性和差异性的统一。

Mate-selecting standards of the first generation of only childs differ little from those of children with siblings. For both of them, moral standards come first. And they hardly take the initiative to pursue their mates, reflecting the philosophy of ＂the way of medium＂. As far as age is concerned,＂elder man and younger woman＂ or ＂man and woman of similar age＂ is regarded as the best spouse format. When it comes to the consideration of each other＇s capabilities, man and woman both want to select mate who is more capable than or as capable as him or her. The most popular way to find spouse is free-love.To wrap up, mate-selecting standards of the first generation of only childs desert outdated perceptions and absorb new positive trends. And mate-selecting standards among different groups within the first generation of only childs demonstrates both similarities and differences.